resresoftri1971

  • 在住国:日本
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  • 出身国:日本
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I am startled by the author's simplistic, objectifying vilification of the 'narcissist'. When does someone with narcissistic traits suddenly become a 'narcissist'? Why does another person choose a 'narcissist' in the first place? Isn't the flip side of narcissism a sense of total worthlessness? I am a male married to a female narcissist. For the past 5 years of marriage she has pushed my family and friends away. She has tried to control everything including finances. Everyday it feels like I&8217;m walking on eggshells. In the beginning she wanted a divorce but I prayed to god and begged that she stay. Now I regret it. No one should have to live in suffering this way. I am convinced no one should stay with a narcissist. The relationship with a covert narcissist may be even more toxic than with an overtly narcissistic spouse. While regular narcissists are always &8220;in your face&8221; and self-promoting, covert narcissists differ in a number of ways. For instance, they may seem passive, quiet, shy, reserved, and have periods of anxiety or depression. They can come across as nice, yet fragile. By playing the victim, the covert narcissist manipulates the other spouse.

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